Gently looking ahead so your loved one's wishes stay at the center of their care.
The best time to start legal and financial planning is often now, while your loved one can still share their wishes. Key documents include a financial power of attorney, a healthcare (advance) directive, and a will. An elder law attorney and a financial planner can guide your family through the steps.
Legal and financial planning isn't something most families look forward to, and that's completely understandable. In our last article, we talked about staying emotionally connected as dementia progresses. This time, we're gently looking ahead.
Taking care of important legal and financial plans early can make a big difference. It helps ensure your loved one's wishes stay at the center of their care and gives families greater peace of mind as the journey continues.
If you've been wondering when the "right time" is to talk about planning, the answer is often now. While your loved one can still share their thoughts and preferences, these conversations can be meaningful and empowering.
Try keeping it simple and reassuring. You might say, "I just want to make sure we're honoring your wishes and making things easier for everyone down the road."
You don't need to know all the legal language, just the basics:
As dementia progresses, managing finances can become harder. Helpful steps include setting up automatic bill payments, using joint or supervised bank accounts, and watching for scams or unusual spending.
An elder law attorney can guide families through the legal steps, and a financial planner can help prepare for future care costs.
Many families say that once these plans are in place, they feel a huge sense of relief. With the paperwork handled, you can return your focus to what matters most: spending meaningful time together.
Every article in this series is grounded in current research and clinical guidance. This content is educational and is not a substitute for advice from your physician or care team.
Our team welcomes conversations at any stage, before a crisis and not only during one. There is no obligation, and no question is too small.